Ijumaa, 22 Mei 2015
IMEELEZEWA na wachunguzi kwamba sababu ambayo humfanya mwanamme mwenye afya kutoa mbegu zaidi ya milioni 40 wakati wa tendo la ndoa na mbegu moja tu ya kiume na ya kike hutakiwa katika kutunga mimba, ni “kushindana kwa mbegu za kiume”.
Kwa wastani, mwanamme hutoa kiasi cha mbegu bilioni 525 katika maisha yake, na kwa kila mwezi hutoa mbegu hizo zisizopungua bilioni moja.
Kwa upande wa wanawake, wao huwa wamezaliwa na mayai milioni mbili ya uzazi, na wafikiapo wakati wa balehe, idadi kubwa ya mayai hayo hujifunga na kuacha mayai 450 tu ambayo huweza kukomaa na kuwa mayai yenye uwezo wa kutunga mimba.
Kulingana na utafiti mpya, tangu zama za kuwepo kwa jinsia za kiume na kike, jinsia ya kiume imekuwa na ushindani katika kutaka kupeleka mbegu zake za uzazi karibu na yai la kike. Katika ushindani huo msingi wake ni kwamba kufikisha mbegu za kiume karibu na yai la kike kunatoa uwezekano mkubwa zaidi wa kuungana na yai la kike na kutunga mimba. Hivyo jinsia ya kiume huitafuta fursa hiyo kwa kutia maanani kwamba ni “mimi naweza kufanya hivyo na si jirani yangu”.
Mashindano haya ni mabadiliko ya lazima kwa viumbe wa kiume wa aina zote. Iwapo mbegu ya mpinzani wako itafanikiwa kuungana na yai na kutunga mimba, hivyo fursa ya wewe kuendeleza vinasaba vyako kwa viumbe wengine hupotea. Katika vizazi vingi vilivyopita matokeo yamekuwa ni hayohayo: kwamba nguvu za kuzaliana huenda kwa viumbe vya kiume vinavyotoa mbegu nyingi zaidi za uzazi, na hivyo kuweza kuendeleza vinasaba (genes) vyake.
Hivyo, vinasaba vya viumbe wanaotoa mbegu ndogo za uzazi hatimaye hutoweka katika jumuia ya viumbe husika na kubakia tu katika historia ya mabadiliko.
Kama lingekuwa ni suala la kutoa mbegu nyingi ni vizuri zaidi, basi wanyama wa aina zote wangekuwa na korodani kubwa ajabu katika jitihada za kutaka kushinda mashinano ya utoaji mbegu nyingi. Hata hivyo, hilo pekee halitoshi, kwani idadi ya mbegu ni jambo muhimu pamoja na ukaribu wake na yai la kike.
Katika kulifanya yai la kike litunge mimba, si jambo tu la kutegemea manii nyingi unayotoa, bali ukaribu wa manii hayo na yai la kike ni jambo muhimu pia.
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POSTING BY ;BARBRA WILLIAM
DATE;22/MAY/2015
Miongoni mwa vitu vinavyochangia kuharibu uhusiano wa kimapenzi ni hisia. Wapenzi wengi wameachana kwa sababu si kwamba walithibitisha ubaya wa wenzao ila walijijaza wenyewe hisia mbaya na kujikuta wamepoteza thamani ya kupenda. Hebu angalia hisia nane hatari ili uzikimbie mapema kabla hazijakuharibia penzi lako.
1. NASALITIWA
Kuishi katika mapenzi huku ukiwa na fikra kwamba mwenza wako anakusaliti ni jambo baya kwa vile huathiri msukumo wa ndani wa kupenda. Matokeo yake utajikuta ukishindwa kutimiza wajibu wako kama mke/mume kwa sababu tu ya kuendekeza hisia mbaya. Acha kuhisi, tafuta ukweli.
2. TUTAACHANA
Kuna wapenzi ambao wanaishi na mawazo ya “ipo siku tutaachana”. Wanafanya hivyo eti kwa kutafsiri mwenendo usioridhisha wa mapenzi yao. Kusema kweli hili ni jambo baya kwani huondoa ari na kujenga ufa wa mapenzi. Huwafanya wapenzi kubakia na wazo moja tu, la kutafuta sehemu mbadala ya kwenda baada ya kuachana. Usiwaze kabisa kuachana hata kama mnagombana na mwenzako kila siku.
3. SIWEZI MAPENZI
Baadhi ya wapenzi huwa na hisia kwamba hawayawezi mapenzi. Hata kama hawajaambiwa chochote kuhusu kutowatosheleza wenza wao faragha hukimbilia kujihukumu. Hujaambiwa kama umecheza chini ya kiwango, hofu ya nini? Usiwaze hivyo, kama una lolote linalokufanya uwe na hofu muulize mwenzio.
4. NINA KASORO
Naamini mitaani wapo watu ambao huamini wana kasoro fulani ndiyo maana hawafikii viwango vya kupendwa kama wanavyovihitaji. “Yaani mimi ningekuwa kama fulani ningefurahi sana lakini ufupi wangu ndiyo tatizo.” Hizi ni hisia mbaya tu, kumbuka kuna wafupi wanapendwa ile mbaya. Jisahihishe na epuka kujishusha hadhi kwenye hisia zako.
5. NITAMUUA
Miongoni mwa hisia mbaya kabisa kwenye mapenzi ni kufikiria kumuua mwenzako kwa sababu yoyote. “Nikimfumania na mwanaume mwingine nitamuua.” Mtu anayetawaliwa na mawazo ya aina hii anajiweka katika mtego mbaya kisaikolojia wa kuja kutekeleza kile anachojiapiza hata kwa sababu ndogo. Usifikirie hivyo maishani mwako.
6. NIMEKOSEA KUCHAGUA
Usijihukumu makosa kwa sababu umeona mpenzi wako ana tatizo fulani. Fahamu kuwa kasoro ni sehemu ya ubinadamu. Weka mikakati ya kumuongoza mwezio kuliko kuhitimisha kwa mawazo kwamba ulikosea kumchagua. “Ningejua kama yuko hivi nisingemchagua.” Usiwaze hivi!
7. HATUWEZI KUZAA
Kuna wapenzi ambao kwa kuishi miaka mitatu au minne pamoja bila kupata mtoto hufikia kwenye fikra kwamba hawawezi kuzaa. “Mmm, mwaka wa nne umepita bila mtoto, nadhani sisi hatuwezi kuzaa.” Kwa nini msizae?Hizo ni fikra zako, hamjaambiwa na daktari sasa iweje uwaze hivyo? Jipe moyo kwani kuna watu walizaa baada ya miaka kumi, iweje ninyi wa mwaka mmoja?
8. UNANIDANGANYA
Ipo aina ya watu ambao hata kama wakiambiwa wanapendwa sana, hukimbilia kusema na kuamini kuwa wanadanganywa. “Mmm unanidanganya.” Atasema hivyo licha ya kuona mwanaume anavyojituma kumsotea na kumuonesha kila dalili za mapenzi. Hili ni jambo baya, ukithibitisha kwamba unapendwa usihisi unadanganywa, utapoteza bahati yako.
POSTING BY;BARBRA WILLIAM
DATE;30 JULY 2015
Wanawake daraja la kwanza wanaopendwa zaidi na wanaume ni wale wenye msimamo, uelewa mkubwa wa mambo na maamuzi sahihi, wako makini kwenye matendo yao na siku zote hufanya vitu kwa ajili ya kupata mafanikio.
WAPENDA USAWA
Aina ya pili inayohitajika katika katika ulimwengu wa kimapenzi ni wanawake wanaoheshimu usawa wa jinsia, walio tayari kubeba majukumu ya kifamilia kwa ulinganifu sawa na wanaume, wenye uwezo wa kuongoza jamii kwa asilimia 50 kwa 50.
WANAOJUA MAPENZI
Wanawake wajuzi wa mambo ya faragha wanapendwa sana. Sifa yao kubwa ni uwezo wa kutosheleza katika tendo la ndoa. Tafiti zinaonyesha kuwa wanaume hupenda sana wanawake watundu katika mchezo wa sita kwa sita. Mara nyingi wanatajwa kuwa na uwezo wa kuteka akili za wanaume bila kujali sifa zao za nje au za ndani.
MARAFIKI
Wanawake wenye sifa sawa na rafiki ni aina ya nne inayowavutia wanaume. Wao hutegemea zaidi nguvu ya kushawishi inayotokana na namna wanavyojali na kujitolea kuhakikisha wanakuwa marafiki wa kweli kwenye shida na raha kwa wapenzi wao. Si wakorofi, waungwana na wapenda amani.
WA WAZI
Aina nyingine ya wanawake inayowavutia wanaume ni wenye msimamo na uwazi. Si wepesi wa kuburuzwa katika maamuzi ya msingi kwa kisingizio cha wao ni wanawake. Utafiti unaonesha wanawake wa aina hii wamekuwa muhimu hasa kwa wanaume wenye tabia za ubabe na udhaifu katika uelewa wa mambo.
WANAOJITEGEMEA
Wanawake wanaojitegemea wana soko kubwa kwa wanaume tofauti na akina naomba vocha kila siku. Uchunguzi unaonyesha kuwa wanaume wa leo hawapendi wanawake tegemezi, wasiokuwa na kazi na wanaoendekeza starehe za upande mmoja.
WASIO NA PRESHA
Nikisema wanawake wasiokuwa na presha namaanisha wasiolazimisha vitu vitokee haraka haraka. Wao siku zote huacha mambo yatokee yenyewe na kazi yao kuwa ni kutenda sehemu ya majukumu yao kama wapenzi.
MARIDADI
Kundi lingine la wanawake wanaopendwa na wanaume ni wanaozingatia usafi na kujiremba. Wanaokwenda na wakati katika mavazi na mvuto wa nje. Lakini pia ni welewa wa mazingira, si wasamba. Wanapendeza kwa muonekano.
WANAORIDHIKA
Wanawake ambao hulidhika na hali walizonazo ni kivutio kikubwa kwa wanaume, hili ni kundi linalohitajika sana katika ulimwengu wa mapenzi kwa upande wa wanaume ambao maisha ya sasa yamekuwa yakiwageuza kutoka juu kwenda chini au chini juu. Kukubali hali zote bila kubadili tabia ni sifa njema ya mwanamke.
WA MMOJA
Wanawake wanaochagua mara moja na kutosheka na kuwa tayari kukwepa kila aina ya vishawishi toka kwa wanaume ambao kimtazamo wana vitu vya ziada zaidi ya waliowachagua mwanzo wanahitajika sana. “Niliye naye ananitosheleza kwa kila kitu sitaki mtu mwingine.” Kundi la wanawake wa aina hii ni adimu na muhimu sana.
POSTING BY;BARBRA WILLIAM
DATE;20/MAY/2015
Hatua 5 za kuzungumza na mpenzi wako aliyekasirika
Kwenye mapenzi kuna nyakati za kutofautiana, kukasirishana. Katika hali ya kawada kipindi hiki huwa ni za hatari kwa sababu husababisha nyufa kubwa za uhusiano na kulifanya penzi kukosa ladha.
Sote tunajua, watu hupigana, huachana, hujeruhiana, hutukanana, hudhalilishana wakiwa na hasira. Hata hivyo si wote wanaojua wafanye nini wanapojikuta wameingia kwenye hatua hiyo mbaya.
Msomaji wangu, hebu jaribu kukumbuka ugomvi mmoja uliotokea kati yako na mpenzi wako na ikiwezekana jikumbushe mlivyoanza! Utabaini kuwa mlianza kama utani na mkajikuta mmefura kwa hasira, mkatwangana makonde, mkatamkiana maneno makali ya kuudhi na
pengine mkaamua kuachana.
Yote hii ni kwa sababu mlikosa elimu ya mazungumzo. Ingekuwa mmoja wenu hasa yule aliyekuwa wa pili kukasirika anafahamu hatua za kuzungumza na mtu aliyekasirika angechukua jukumu la kutuliza machafuko na kuleta amani kwenye mapenzi. Tazama hatua tano za kuzungumza na mpenzi aliyekasirika
Yote hii ni kwa sababu mlikosa elimu ya mazungumzo. Ingekuwa mmoja wenu hasa yule aliyekuwa wa pili kukasirika anafahamu hatua za kuzungumza na mtu aliyekasirika angechukua jukumu la kutuliza machafuko na kuleta amani kwenye mapenzi. Tazama hatua tano za kuzungumza na mpenzi aliyekasirika
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MPUNGUZE MHEMKO
Hasira hujaza kifua, huathiri mzunguko wa damu na ufahamu. Mtu aliyekasirika huwa vigumu kwake kusikiliza au kutazama mambo kwa jicho la tatu. Mwenye hasira huwa hafikirii matokea yajayo badala yake hutazama zaidi tukio na jinsi ya kupata ushindi iwe kwa maneno au kwa mapambano.
Katika hali ya namna hiyo, mtu mwingine akija na busara za kutaka kumgeuza haraka haraka hawezi kumuelewa. Muhimu hapo ni kuacha kumwadama, kujibizana naye, kumshawishi asikilize badala yake mpe nafasi ya kusema atakavyo, abwate ajuavyo huku wewe ukimuitikia na kumkubalia lawama zake. “Basi mpenzi mwenye makosa ni mimi.” Kauli za aina hii zitampunguza hasira kwani atajiona msindi.
MSOME SAIKOLOJIA YAKE
Kwa kuwa unamfahamu mpenzi wako kwa kina itakuwa rahisi kwako kumtambua kuwa amepunguza hasira na kurudi katika hali yake ya kawaida. Ukisha fahamu hilo chukua jukumu la kumsoma kisaikojia ili kujua kama yuko kwenye hali nzuri ya kusikiliza yale uliyotaka kumwambia wakati alipokuwa na hasira.
Zoezi hili linaweza kuchukua saa kadhaa na wakati mwingine hata siku mbili. Lengo ni nini? Ni kupata matokeo sahihi ya kuondoa chuki za mwenza wako na kumfundisha madhara ya kukasirika kwenye uhusiano wenu wa kimapenzi. “J, nakupenda sana, lakini juzi uliniumiza, uliniambia mimi malaya kwa kosa ambalo sikufanya?” Bila shaka muda huo atakusikiliza zaidi kuliko ungebishana naye alipokuwa na hasiraJ
MPUNGUZE MHEMKO
Hasira hujaza kifua, huathiri mzunguko wa damu na ufahamu. Mtu aliyekasirika huwa vigumu kwake kusikiliza au kutazama mambo kwa jicho la tatu. Mwenye hasira huwa hafikirii matokea yajayo badala yake hutazama zaidi tukio na jinsi ya kupata ushindi iwe kwa maneno au kwa mapambano.
Katika hali ya namna hiyo, mtu mwingine akija na busara za kutaka kumgeuza haraka haraka hawezi kumuelewa. Muhimu hapo ni kuacha kumwadama, kujibizana naye, kumshawishi asikilize badala yake mpe nafasi ya kusema atakavyo, abwate ajuavyo huku wewe ukimuitikia na kumkubalia lawama zake. “Basi mpenzi mwenye makosa ni mimi.” Kauli za aina hii zitampunguza hasira kwani atajiona msindi.
MSOME SAIKOLOJIA YAKE
Kwa kuwa unamfahamu mpenzi wako kwa kina itakuwa rahisi kwako kumtambua kuwa amepunguza hasira na kurudi katika hali yake ya kawaida. Ukisha fahamu hilo chukua jukumu la kumsoma kisaikojia ili kujua kama yuko kwenye hali nzuri ya kusikiliza yale uliyotaka kumwambia wakati alipokuwa na hasira.
Zoezi hili linaweza kuchukua saa kadhaa na wakati mwingine hata siku mbili. Lengo ni nini? Ni kupata matokeo sahihi ya kuondoa chuki za mwenza wako na kumfundisha madhara ya kukasirika kwenye uhusiano wenu wa kimapenzi. “J, nakupenda sana, lakini juzi uliniumiza, uliniambia mimi malaya kwa kosa ambalo sikufanya?” Bila shaka muda huo atakusikiliza zaidi kuliko ungebishana naye alipokuwa na hasiraJ
MRUHUSU KUKUJIBU
Pamoja na kumsoma kisaikojia na kumwambia kinagaubaga makosa yake, usimzuie kujitetea, mpe nafasi ya kuzungumzia kilichomkasirisha. “Unaona bado unanitukana, sasa naamini siku ile ulikuwa umedhamilia.” Usisiseme hivyo, mwache ajibu hoja hata kama atakuwa anakukandamiza na kuzidi kujijengea ushindi. Mvumilie aoshe ubongo wake.
Pamoja na kumsoma kisaikojia na kumwambia kinagaubaga makosa yake, usimzuie kujitetea, mpe nafasi ya kuzungumzia kilichomkasirisha. “Unaona bado unanitukana, sasa naamini siku ile ulikuwa umedhamilia.” Usisiseme hivyo, mwache ajibu hoja hata kama atakuwa anakukandamiza na kuzidi kujijengea ushindi. Mvumilie aoshe ubongo wake.
EPUKA MARUMBANO
Kama nilivyosema kwenye hapo juu, wapenzi wengine huwa wagumu kuelewa, ni watu wa kuficha udhaifu wao na kutopenda kuonekana wamekosea. Watu wa namna hii unapowarejeshea mazungumzo wanaweza kujikuta wanahamaki tena.
“Kwa hiyo ulikuwa unasemaje…nilifanya ndiyo,… wewe unaamuaje?” Mkifika kwenye alama hiyo usikubali kurumabana naye mwache aseme halafu wewe ingia kwenye hatua ya tano.
MUOMBE MSAMAHA
Hata kama atakuwa yeye ndiye mwenye makosa na amekataa kukiri, usijali, chukua jukumu la kumuomba msamaha na kueleza tena nia yako ya kumazungumzo ilikuwa ni kuelewana si kugombana. Kumbuka hata kama amekiri kosa, bado unatakiwa kumuomba radhi kwa kurejea yaliyopita. “Mpenzi inawezekana nikawa nimekuudhi kwa niliyosema, nakuomba sana tusameheane.”
Bila shaka kwa haya machache msomaji wangu utakuwa umejifunza na kuchukua hatua za kuzuia migogoro mikubwa inayotokana na hasira za mpenzi wako. Leo niishie hapa, nikushukuu kwa kunisoma. Kaa mkao wa kura, kile kitabu bora cha mapenzi nchini TITANIC, TOLEO LA NNE, kitakuwa mtaani hivi karibuni. Usikose nakala yako.
POSTING BY;BARBRA WILLIAM
DATE;21/MAY/2015
JINSI YA KUMTAMBUA MWANAMKE ANAYEKARIBIA KUKUACHA!
Kuna tofauti kubwa ya kimaamuzi kati ya mwanaume na mwanamke kwenye suala la kuachana. Inaelezwa kwamba, wanaume ni rahisi kwao kuamua ndani ya dakika moja na kutangaza kuvunja uhusiano, lakini kwa wanawake maamuzi yao mara nyingi hutanguliwa na dalili, ingawa hata wanaume nao wanazo.
Uchunguzi unaonesha kuwa, wanawake wengi hawawezi kuficha sana hisia zao za mapenzi, lakini pia kwenye chuki hawakujaaliwa uvumilivu. Wanasaikolojia wanakiri kwamba, kutambua mawazo yaliyomo ndani ya mwanamke kwa kumtazama muonekano wake usoni ni rahisi kuliko mwanaume ambaye anatajwa kuwa na uwezo kuficha mawazo yake.
Muongozo huo wa kitaalamu wa kumtambua mwanamke anayekaribia kukuacha ni kazi rahisi, ambayo inaweza kuanzia kwenye kona ya mazoea ya tabia zake za kila siku kwenye uhusiano wa kimapenzi. Ni imani yangu kuwa kila mwanaume anamfahamu mpenzi wake katika sura mbili za chuki na furaha yake.
Atakuwa mwanaume wa ajabu ambaye atarudi nyumbani kwake na kushindwa kusoma sura ya mkewe na kujua kama ana furaha au amekwazika.
Ninapotazama uwezekano rahisi wa kumtambua mwanamke, nafika mahali pa kuamini kuwa dokezo chache nitakazotoa hapa chini zinaweza kuwa msaada kwa wanaume wengi kujua kama wamekaribia kuwekwa kando kimapenzi.
KUPENDA KUJITENGA
Mwanamke ambaye anapenda kujitenga na mpenzi wake atakuwa kwenye hatua za awali za kuelekea kuachana naye. Tabia ya mwanamke kutopenda kukaa karibu na mumewe au mpenzi wake inatajwa kama ishara ya kuchoka au kukinai penzi. Hoja inabaki pale niliposema pa yeye kushindwa kuamua haraka na hivyo kutengeneza kwanza hali ya kumpuuza mpenzi wake.
KUPOTEZA HAMU YA TENDO
Mwanamke ambaye hafurahii tendo la ndoa kwa mumewe au mpenzi wake yuko kwenye hatua za kuacha. Mara zote msisimko wa kimapenzi huashiria utoshelevu wa kihisia ambao ndiyo unaoelezwa kuwa ni muhimu kwenye uhusiano wa kimapenzi kuliko kitu kingine chochote.
Hii ina maana kwamba, mwanamke anayetosheka na kuvutiwa na mwanaume aliyenaye hawezi kukosa hisia za kimapenzi hasa anapokuwa na mwenza wake faragha.
KUPENDA KUKOSOA
Kama nilivyosema, kujua historia ya penzi lenu namna lilivyoanza ni jambo muhimu kwa sababu husaidia kujua kama kuna mabadiliko hatari ya tabia za mwanamke.
Ikitokea mpenzi wako ambaye hapo mwanzo alikuwa msikivu na ghafla ukaanza kuona amekuwa mkosaji na mpingaji wa mwenendo wako au kila unachofikiria kukifanya, tambua kuwa hiyo ni ishara kuwa amechoka kilichobaki ni nafasi ya kukuacha.
UHUSIANO NA MTU MWINGINE
Licha ya kwamba usaliti kwenye uhusiano limekuwa suala la kawaida siku hizi, lakini mwanamke ambaye atakuwa hafichi uhusiano wake wa pembeni na kuacha minong’ono ikikufikia huku yeye akionesha kutojali malalamiko yako ya kusalitiwa, ujue hiyo ni ishara kwamba mwanaume wa pembeni amemfikisha kwenye hitaji la moyo wake na hivyo kuachana na wewe si jambo la gharama kwake.
KUTOKUKUTEGEMEA
Mwanamke ambaye ana kusudio la kukuacha huanza kwa kuuondoa utegemezi. Ikiwa alikuwa anakuomba nauli, fedha ya matumizi, ada na huduma nyingine atasitisha bila kukuambia na bado utaona anaendelea kujimudu kama kawaida au kuteseka kimya kimya. Kuacha kukutegemea kama zamani ni dalili za kuweza kuishi bila wewe na hivyo kutafsiri uwezekano wa kukuacha wakati wowote.
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Kuna tofauti kubwa ya kimaamuzi kati ya mwanaume na mwanamke kwenye suala la kuachana. Inaelezwa kwamba, wanaume ni rahisi kwao kuamua ndani ya dakika moja na kutangaza kuvunja uhusiano, lakini kwa wanawake maamuzi yao mara nyingi hutanguliwa na dalili, ingawa hata wanaume nao wanazo.
Uchunguzi unaonesha kuwa, wanawake wengi hawawezi kuficha sana hisia zao za mapenzi, lakini pia kwenye chuki hawakujaaliwa uvumilivu. Wanasaikolojia wanakiri kwamba, kutambua mawazo yaliyomo ndani ya mwanamke kwa kumtazama muonekano wake usoni ni rahisi kuliko mwanaume ambaye anatajwa kuwa na uwezo kuficha mawazo yake.
Muongozo huo wa kitaalamu wa kumtambua mwanamke anayekaribia kukuacha ni kazi rahisi, ambayo inaweza kuanzia kwenye kona ya mazoea ya tabia zake za kila siku kwenye uhusiano wa kimapenzi. Ni imani yangu kuwa kila mwanaume anamfahamu mpenzi wake katika sura mbili za chuki na furaha yake.
Atakuwa mwanaume wa ajabu ambaye atarudi nyumbani kwake na kushindwa kusoma sura ya mkewe na kujua kama ana furaha au amekwazika.
Ninapotazama uwezekano rahisi wa kumtambua mwanamke, nafika mahali pa kuamini kuwa dokezo chache nitakazotoa hapa chini zinaweza kuwa msaada kwa wanaume wengi kujua kama wamekaribia kuwekwa kando kimapenzi.
KUPENDA KUJITENGA
Mwanamke ambaye anapenda kujitenga na mpenzi wake atakuwa kwenye hatua za awali za kuelekea kuachana naye. Tabia ya mwanamke kutopenda kukaa karibu na mumewe au mpenzi wake inatajwa kama ishara ya kuchoka au kukinai penzi. Hoja inabaki pale niliposema pa yeye kushindwa kuamua haraka na hivyo kutengeneza kwanza hali ya kumpuuza mpenzi wake.
KUPOTEZA HAMU YA TENDO
Mwanamke ambaye hafurahii tendo la ndoa kwa mumewe au mpenzi wake yuko kwenye hatua za kuacha. Mara zote msisimko wa kimapenzi huashiria utoshelevu wa kihisia ambao ndiyo unaoelezwa kuwa ni muhimu kwenye uhusiano wa kimapenzi kuliko kitu kingine chochote.
Hii ina maana kwamba, mwanamke anayetosheka na kuvutiwa na mwanaume aliyenaye hawezi kukosa hisia za kimapenzi hasa anapokuwa na mwenza wake faragha.
KUPENDA KUKOSOA
Kama nilivyosema, kujua historia ya penzi lenu namna lilivyoanza ni jambo muhimu kwa sababu husaidia kujua kama kuna mabadiliko hatari ya tabia za mwanamke.
Ikitokea mpenzi wako ambaye hapo mwanzo alikuwa msikivu na ghafla ukaanza kuona amekuwa mkosaji na mpingaji wa mwenendo wako au kila unachofikiria kukifanya, tambua kuwa hiyo ni ishara kuwa amechoka kilichobaki ni nafasi ya kukuacha.
UHUSIANO NA MTU MWINGINE
Licha ya kwamba usaliti kwenye uhusiano limekuwa suala la kawaida siku hizi, lakini mwanamke ambaye atakuwa hafichi uhusiano wake wa pembeni na kuacha minong’ono ikikufikia huku yeye akionesha kutojali malalamiko yako ya kusalitiwa, ujue hiyo ni ishara kwamba mwanaume wa pembeni amemfikisha kwenye hitaji la moyo wake na hivyo kuachana na wewe si jambo la gharama kwake.
KUTOKUKUTEGEMEA
Mwanamke ambaye ana kusudio la kukuacha huanza kwa kuuondoa utegemezi. Ikiwa alikuwa anakuomba nauli, fedha ya matumizi, ada na huduma nyingine atasitisha bila kukuambia na bado utaona anaendelea kujimudu kama kawaida au kuteseka kimya kimya. Kuacha kukutegemea kama zamani ni dalili za kuweza kuishi bila wewe na hivyo kutafsiri uwezekano wa kukuacha wakati wowote.
MESEJI NZURI ZA MAPENZI KWA UMPENDAYE KWA DHATI
Kuna miezi 12 katika mwaka…siku 30 katika mwezi…siku 7 katika wiki, masaa 24 katika siku…dakika 60 katika saa……lakini wewe ni mmoja tu maishani mwangu.
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I asked God for a rose and He gave me a garden. I asked God for a drop of water and He gave me an ocean. I asked God for an angel and He gave me you!
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Kuna vitu viwili zinavyoniamsha asubuhi na mapema: Alamu ya saa yangu na wewe
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I will walk with you side by side for only one condition: hide your wings every time we walk together because the whole world might know that you're my angel!
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Bongo zenye fikra kali huwa na mawazo, suluhu na sababu; ubongo wa kisayansi huwa na kanuni, nadharia na takwimu; wangu una wewe tu!
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Do you take me to be your lawfully wedded text mate, in sickness or in health, through metering or not, till low bat do us part?
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Penzi linaweza kuelezewa kwa namna nyingi. Namna moja niijuayo nikumtumia mapenzi hayo mtu asomaye meseji hii.
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Each of us is an angel with one wing. The only way we could fly is to hold each other and share wings. So if you have trouble flying, I will always share mine with you.
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Kama ningeweza kubadili herufi, ningeweka yangu na yako kuwa pamoja.
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Minsan caring is better than loving. Minsan tea is better than coffee. Minsan smile is better than laughter. Pero nobody is better than you.
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Umewekwa usiku ili tuweze tuukubali mchana, huzuni ili tuikubali furaha, ubaya ili tuukubali uzuri, wewe ili niyakunali mapenzi.
I don't want to say I miss you, though deep inside I do, coz I'm afraid you might see thru and know how much fear I have of losing someone like you.
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Unaonekana kung’ara leo nilijuaje…….ni kwasababu unaonekana hivyo kila siku
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You greeted me hi, I didn't reply. You gave me a sweet smile, I responded with a sigh. You showed me your love, you received a shrug. But when you bid goodbye I began to cry.
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I have heard from the phone company, the water company, the electric company, but haven't heard from you. Too bad, it's your company I love the most.
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Mapenzi ni nini? Wale wasiopenda huita majukumu, wale wanaoyachezea huita mchezo, wale wasiokuwa nayo huita ndoto, na wale wanaoelewa huyaita mwisho wa safari, na mimi, mwisho wangu ni wewe.
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I've been wondering why you're not texting... Multiple choices: a. busy b. dilemma c. tired d. thrifty e. want me to miss you.
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Love is something special, a treasure I want to find... To others, love is blind but for me, its not true, coz when I fell in love...I saw you.
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Ni mapenzi gani yanayofanya simu yako ilie kila nitumapo meseji?
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True love is hard to find, special one, one of a kind. I know because it appeared to me on a strange day I met you.
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Kama mapenzi huweza kukimbiwa kwa kufumba macho yetu tu, basi nisingefunika macho kabisa. Sitaki sekunde ipite bila kukupenda wewe.
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While you gave her flowers, you gave me thorns. While all she did was smile, all I did is mourn. While she was so happy, I felt so blue. Because while you loved her, I was loving you.
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Nilikuwa nikifiria kwamba ndoto haziwezi kuwa kweli, lakini nilibadili mawazo yangu pale tu nilipokuona wewe.
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Baadhi ya watu huzaliwa na vipaji. Huweza kufanya mambo mazuri kwa ujuzi wao, lakini hamna anayekufikia wewe, kwani ukinisogelea tu kila kitu huwa kizuri.
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Can I say I love you today? If not, can I ask you again tomorrow? And the day after tomorrow? And the day after that? Coz I'll be loving you every single day of my life.
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Mwanamke ni yule amfanyaye mwanamme auhisi uanaume wake, wewe ni mwanamke mwenye sifa hizo.
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If love is a disease then I'm very ill. But I would not want medicine and won't take any pill. I would instead suffer this illness and be bedridden with joy of knowing you.
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Kukusahau wewe ni ngumu lakini kunisahau mimi ni juu yako. Usinisahau kamwe, unaweza kuisahau meseji hii, lakini si mtumaji.
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First time I saw you, I was scared to touch you. First time I touched you, I was scared to kiss you. First time I kissed you, I was scared to love you. But now that I love you, I'm scared to lose you!
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Mambo yanapokwenda mrama kumbuka kuwa kuna Mungu peponi anayekupenda na kukuangalia, lakini yupo duniani anayekujali ambaye ni mimi peke yangu.
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An angel asked me a reason why I care for you so much. I told her I care for you so much coz there's no reason not to.
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Why do birds fall from the sky every time you walk by? Maybe because like me they want to be near you!
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Simu huboa wakati mwingine, kwani ni lazima ufungue meseji na kuzisoma, kuichaji simu kila mara, lakini usichoke kwani ndiyo inayotuwezesha tuwasiliane
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They say as long as at least one person cares for you, life isn't a waste. So when things go terribly wrong, and you feel like giving up, please remember you still got me.
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Maneno huanza na ABC. Namba 123. Muziki na do re mi na mapenzi huanza na mimi na wewe.
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If only one star would fall every time I miss you, then all the stars in heaven would be gone. Don't wonder if there are no stars tonight! It's your fault coz you made me miss you a lot.
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Mvua na jua haviwezi kuwa pamoja, usiku na mchana hazigongani, lakini mimi na wewe, hata wasemaje, ‘tunafiti’ kuwa pamoja.
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If someone would ask me what a beautiful life means, I would lean my head on your shoulder and hold you close to me and answer with a smile: "Like this!"
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Niotapo ndoto, hukuota wewe...labda siku moja, inaweza kuwa kweli.
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Life may sometimes be a rough road to walk on where everything seems wrong. But don't give up. Just go on coz when you think you're all alone, look back and you'll find me walking along.
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Kuna bahari kati yetu. Misitu na milima inatutenganisha, mimi si ‘Supamani’ lakini nipe sekunde moja nitavuka nchi nyingi kukutumia mapenzi yangu. Umeipata hiyo?
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Someone once asked me, "Have you ever fallen in love?" Then I answered, "Of course, once." Then they asked me another question: "Did it hurt?" I thought of you and told them "Yes, very much".
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Kama ningeweza kutenga muda kidogo na kuufanya uendelee kung’ara siku zote, siku zote nilizoishi ningechagua wakati nilivyoishi nawe.
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I used to think that the world is so unfair, that it gave me so many reasons to hate it. But now, how can I hate such a wonderful world that gave me you?
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Natamani ningekuwa chozi jichoni mwako ambapo ningetelemka na kuishia midomoni mwako, lakini kamwe sitamani uwe chozi jichoni mwangu nitakupoteza kila muda niliapo.
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When it rains, you don't see the sun, but it's there. Hope we can be like that. We don't always see each other, but we will always be there for one another.
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Naweza kuishiwa ujumbe wa kukutumia. Naweza kuishiwa utani pia. Naweza kuishiwa chaji lakini moyo wangu hauwezi kukosa nafasi ya kukuweka.
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You'll know that you miss someone very much when every time you think of that person, your heart breaks into pieces and just a quick "Hello" from that person can bring the broken pieces back.
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Penzi, maisha yangu yote nimesoma juu ya neno hili, nimeota juu yake, nimelilia, nimelihitaji. Sasa pamoja nawe nimelipata.
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When the time comes I can't smile anymore, don't worry about me, I know what to do. I'll just stare at one corner and think of you. No one else could make me happy like the way you do.
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Kila mtu anataka kuwa jua linalong’arisha maisha yako, lakini ni afadhali niwe mwezi, ili nikuangazie wakati wa giza ambapo jua limechwea na haliangazi tena.
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There's a love that only you can give, a smile that only your lips can show, a twinkle that can only be seen in your eyes, and a life of mine that you alone can complete.
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Ah—Nimesahau jina lako. Ninaweza kukuita langu? Na iwapo utasahau langu, niite lako mpenzi!
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If I had the letters "HRT", I can add "EA" to get a "HEART" or a "U" and get "HURT". But I'd rather choose "U" and get "HURT" than have a "HEART" without "U".
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Unaweza usione kamwe ni kwa kiasi gani ninavyokujali. Unaweza usisikie ni kwa kiasi gani nilivyokushiba, unaweza usihisi namna gani ninavyokukumbuka. Sababu ni moyo wangu tu uliyoyaficha hayo.
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There are 4 steps to happiness: 1. you, 2. me, 3. our hearts, 4. together!
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A day may start or end without a message from me, but believe me it won't start or end without me thinking of you. See! I just did. Take care.
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Kama busu ni maji ningekupatia bahari, kukumbatia ni majani, ningekupa msitu. Mapenzi ni maisha ningekupa yangu bure.
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It's hard to say hello because it might be goodbye. It's hard to say I'm okay because sometimes I'm not. But it's easy to say I miss you coz I know that I really do.
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Ni ngumu kwa watu wawili kupendana wanapoishi Dunia tofauti, lakini Dunia hizo zikutanapo na kuwa kitu kimoja, hiyo ndiyo maana ya kuitwa wewe na mimi.
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If you're feeling lonely and you think there is nobody there to love, support, listen or show they care, just save this message and every time you realize it, it will remind you that a part of me is always there with you.
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Watu husema kwamba, awapo mtu mmoja tu akupendaye, maisha hayajapoteza maana, kwa hiyo, ukijihisi mpweke hauhitaji kuishi nikumbuke mimi.
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Roses are red, violets are blue. I am waiting to hear from a cute guy like you.
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Watu waliniambia ninaweza kufanya chochote kama tu nitaweka mawazo yangu juu ya hicho kitu. Lakini kila nikijitahidi unaipoteza akili yangu
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Do you know that men and women are angels created with only one wing? And they need to embrace each other to be able to fly... Hope you can find your angel whom you can fly with forever.
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Furaha yangu kubwa ni kuliona tabasamu lako, kujua uko na furaha, na kuhisi upendo wako. Najua kuwa maisha mara nyingine huwa ni makatili, na hiyo ni sababu niko hapa kukuonyesha kuwa maisha yanaweza kuwa mazuri kama kuna mtu anayekujali.
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I always think of you, but I always fail to know the reason why. Is there something else I should know about you? But there is one thing that I know is true. That life will always be sad without you.
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Chuki huharibu akili; mapenzi huitibu. Umeitibu akili yangu.
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Don't say you love me unless you really mean it cause I might do something crazy like believe it.
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Kumjali mtu ni rahisi, lakini kumfanya mtu akujali ni vigumu, nashangaa umewezaje kunifanya nikujali?
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I'm afraid to close my eyes coz I might think of you. I'm afraid to open them coz I might see you. I'm afraid to move my lips coz I might speak of you. I'm afraid to listen coz I might hear my heart fall for you.
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I'm sorry to be smiling every time you're near. I'm sorry my eyes twinkle whenever you're here. I'm sorry that cupid has made his hit. I'm sorry I love you, I can't help it.
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Nitafute wakati una huzuni, nitafute wakati hamna wa kukusikiliza. Sijali kama mimi ni kimbilio lako la mwisho, bali sipendi ulie peke yako.
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If love can be avoided simply by closing our eyes, I wouldn't blink at all for I don't want to let a second pass having fallen out of love with you.
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Ningependa siku moja utamani sana kuwa na mimi, na uhangaike sana kunitafuta, ili ujue ni kwa kiasi ninavyotamani kuwa nawe sasa.
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If I could be any letter in the alphabet, I'd choose "V" so I can be next to "U"; if you could be any note, I wish you're "RE" so you’re always beside "ME"!
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Kila unachokifanya natamani niwepo, nikitumainia kila ndoto yako itimie kila muda na sehemu, niwepo nikikutakia mafanikio mema kwasababu nakujali.
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The spaces between our fingers were created so that another person's fingers could fill them in. Hope you'll find your dream hand to hold you forever.
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Viungo vyote vya mwili wangu vinakuhitaji, inawezekana kwasababu nimeumbwa kwa ajili yako.
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When you love someone, draw a circle around their name instead of a heart coz hearts can be broken but circles never end.
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Nobody tells fish to swim, birds to fly, cows to moo, dogs to bark - they just do. Just like nobody tells me to remember you. I just do!
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Kama ungekuwa kidonda kwenye moyo wangu, ningekiacha na maumivu yake ndani yangu.
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Whenever you feel blue, I will be there for you. Whenever you are sad, I will stay by your side. Whenever you need someone to love, I will always be there for you to have.
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They can recycle paper till it's as good as new, reproduce cans and jars and old bottles too, but they can never recycle another person as wonderful as you.
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What good is beauty without brains, looks without charm, money without happiness, a smile without feelings, a life without you?
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Kusumbuliwa na mlio wa simu yako, humaanisha kuwa muda fulani, mahali fulani, kuna mtu anakufikiria muda huu, na huyo ni mimi mara zote nakujali.
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A person you love is an extension of yourself. Without it, you're not complete so better take care of yourself because I don't want to lose a part of me.
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I wish my eyes could speak what my heart feels for you; coz my lips can lie on what is true. My eyes couldn't coz even if I close them I could still see you.
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Every time I hear my text tone, I always hope one of them is from you. My cell phone may have limited memory space but my heart has unlimited space for someone like you.
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Nimekuapata! Kama unanichukia, nipige mshale, lakini tafadhali si moyoni sababu hapo ndipo wewe ulipo.
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Someone asked what makes people happy. Some said wealth and some said fame. I was thinking about this when my cell phone beeped and received a text from you. Then, I smiled and said: "This makes me happy."
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You're like a target that I always try to aim at. How I wish I could aim you at the heart. But every time I fail, I feel so sad. You know why? It's because I always end up missing you.
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Naweza kukuazima mabega yangu upande, masikio yangu usikilizie mikono yangu ushikie, miguu yangu, utembelee, lakini si moyo wangu kwani tayari unao wewe.
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If I get takot, would you hawak me tight? If I gawa something mali, would you make it right? If I build an apoy, would you bantay the flame? If I sabi I miss u, would you ramdam the same?
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Lazima utakuwa mwizi sababu umeiba moyo wangu, umechoka sababu unakimbia mara zote akilini mwangu, na labda mimi sina shabaha sababu mara zote nikikulenga nakukosa.
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Mpenzi kwa mara ya kwanza nilipokuana niliogopa kukuambia, hata nilipokuambia niliogopa kukupenda, nilipokupenda sasa naogopa mno kukupoteza. Kusema kweli siko tayari kukukosa katika maisha yangu.
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If a kiss were a raindrop, I'd send you showers. If hugs were a second, I'd send you hours. If smiles were water, I'd send you the sea. If love was a person, I'd send you me.
If I had to choose whether to breathe or to love you, I would use my last breath to tell you that... I love you.
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Wanasema mtu huanguka katika mapenzi mara moja, jambo ambalo mimi naliona si la kweli kwa maana kila ninapokutazama najikuta nakupenda tena na tena.
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It's magic each time we hold each other, each time we cuddle, and each time we kiss. I feel goosebumps all over again. I never want to let you go for fear of losing you, so I just hold on a little bit tighter each day, refusing to let go. You will never know the warmth I feel inside me when I'm with you. You're all I ever wanted.
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Mpenzi wangu kukutana nawe ilikuwa ni bahati, kukuchagua kuwa rafiki yangu ilikuwa ni maamuzi yangu, lakini kuanguka kwenye penzi lako haikuwa hiyari yangu. Umeniteka moyo na akili yangu pia.
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You may not love me like I love you,You may not care for me like I care for you But if you ever need me, I will always be around for you.
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Imani hufanya mambo yote yawezekane, Matumaini hufufua yaliyopoteza uhai, lakini mapenzi hufanya mambo yote yaonekane mazuri. Sina linalonihuzunisha maishani mwangu kwa kuwa tunapendana!
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Love doesn't make the world go round, it just makes the ride worthwhile. Love is in your heart not to stay, but to be shared.
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Mpenzi wangu T tambua kuwa ulimwengu tunaoishi una mambo muhimu matatu. Jambo la kwanza ni kumpata umpendaye, la pili ni kupata atakayekupenda la tatu ambalo ni kubwa kuliko yote ni kwa jambo la kwanza na la pili kuungana pamoja.
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If you love someone, you give everything as you can and don't expect to receive anything in return.
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Ni vigumu kumpata mwenye mapenzi ya kweli na zaidi yule atakayekuwa tayari kukupenda zaidi, hivyo nafasi inapopatika si busara kuichezea tudumishe penzi letu laazizi wangu.
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Mpenzi nakupa pole sana maana nimesikia habari mbaya kwamba unatafutwa na polisi kwa kosa kubwa sana ambalo huwezi kulikana na lina ushahidi wa kutosha kwamba unatuhumiwa kuiba moyo na mawazo yangu kiasi cha kunijeruhi mawazo yangu hadi sasa naonekana kama chizi.
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When you will find any reason for your love,you should know that your love is not true....because true love has no reasons...
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You don't have to love in words; even through the silences love is always heard. I Love You Honey! The way you look into my eyes It scares me The way you say "I love you"
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Nakupenda mpenzi W nafasi uliyotawala moyoni mwangu ni kubwa, hakuna ambaye anaweza kufikia uhodari wako, wewe ni mtu muhimu sana maishani mwangu.
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Just 3 words, i have to say it ,no matter where we are,no matter who were with, no matter how lond it takes i have to say i love you
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Nakupenda sana mwandani wangu ndiyo maana moyo wangu hupatwa kidonda ninaokuona na mwingine hasa anapokuwa hana sifa, nahisi kama anakutumia wewe kama mdori wake wa kumfurahisha. Uwe makini ua la moyo wangu.
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J, I love u frm core of my heart.My Every beat of heart is u n wen it pumb blood frm heart n blood goes to brain it again remember's u....I LOVE U
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I wish my eyes could speak what my heart feels for u bcoz my lips could lie on what is true.My eyes couldn't bcoz even if would close them i would still see u ....... love you still n after my last breath
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Nakupenda mpenzi wangu, sifikirii kitu chochote zaidi yako na kwa kuwa nakupenda sipendi kuwa na urafiki hata na msichana kwani atakuwa anabana nafasi niliyokuwekea wewe. Noamba unipende nami nakupenda kila sikunde inayopita maishani mwangu. Mwaaaaaaaaa baby.
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Penzi lako ndiyo pumzi yangu nawezaje kukuacha laazizi, ina maana nife??? Siwezi kukuacha nakupenda. Nitakupenda mpaka mwisho wa uhai wangu.
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I LOVE you not for who you are, but for how you make me feel... Every time you touch me i can feel my heart going BOOM BOOM BOOM and it goes faster and faster. When you are not next to me i feel like a part of me
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Asali wa moyo wangu, fahamu kuwa unaweza kuamini kwamba mwanga wa nyota unaweza kuunguza nyumba, jua linaweza kusimama, lakini usiwaze hata siku moja kuwa naweza kukuacha.
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To the soul that hug my soul,to the heart that kept his secret in mine,to the hand that lighted the fire of my emotions,to my lovely butterfly....love will keep us alive
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Nakupenda sana P tafadhari usinikasirikie, nimekukumbuka nahitaji kukuona unipoze moyo wangu, njooo mwandani wangu nakusubiri daktari wangu.
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U may be out of my sight, but not out of my heart. U may be out of my reach, but not out of my mind. I may mean nothing to u, but u'll always be special to me.
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I love so much my heart is sure. As time goes on I love you more. Your happy smile, Your loving face, No one will ever take your place.
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Mpenzi unawafahamu maadui wa mapenzi yetu ? Ni wale rafiki zako wanaokuletea maneno ya uongo, ndugu zako wanaotugombanisha na wachawi wanotuotea mabaya, tujihadhari tusiwape ushindi. Mapenzi yetu yadumu daima.
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You have my heart, my soul, and my love. you mean the world to me, and i would do anything for you. you are my true love and I want to be with you forever. you are truley amazing and deserve the very best. I only h
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Uchungu wa kifo hauna tofauti na maumivu nitakayoyapata ukiniachana, mpenzi usiniache nami siko tayari kukuacha.
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I love you. I love every little thing about you. I love your cute smile, your magical eyes, and the sound of your voice. I love your gentle touch, and I love the warmth I feel when I’m by your side. I can't stop THINKIG ABOUT U
Jumanne, 19 Mei 2015
Jumamosi, 16 Mei 2015
Fashionable lineup ... Rihanna, Beyonce, Jay Z, Kim Kardashian, Jennifer Lopez and Sarah Jessica Parker. Pictures: Getty Source: Getty Images
BEYONCE has outdone Kim Kardashian’s and Jennifer Lopez’s barely-there looks, wearing a dramatic see-through dress to the Met Gala today.
Leaving very little to the imagination, Queen Bey sported a floor-length Givenchy gown that was completely sheer apart from strategically-placed embellishments.
She teamed the racy gown with quite possibly the world’s highest ponytail and completed the look with winged eyeliner.
Beyonce, 33, completely overshadowed Kardashian’s and JLo’s attempts at naked dresses — they bared their most famous assets in daring designs that featured as much flesh as fabric.
The annual Met Ball, officially known as the Costume Institute Gala, is the most glamorous event on the A-list’s calendar, sort of like the Oscars of fashion.
Met Ball beauties
FASHION’S event of they year has New York in a flurry as celebs don their most avant garde frocks at this year’s Metropolitan Museum of Art Gala. A barely-there Beyonce attends the Met Gala 2015 “China: Through The Looking Glass”. Picture: Getty
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High maintenance ... Bey’s train needed its own assistant. Source: AP
Nude look ... Jay Z was clearly a fan of Mrs Carter’s ensemble. Source: AP
Kardashian, 34, wore a “naked” dress by Roberto Cavalli, which she said was inspired by the outfit Cher wore to the first ever Met Gala.
The couple everyone was waiting for ... Kim Kardashian and Kanye West arrive. Source: Getty Images
Sheer ... Kim shows off the dress’s epic train. Source: Getty Images
J. Lo, 45, turned heads in an embellished red Versace gown with dramatic cut-outs near her well-documented booty.
Famous assets ... Jennifer Lopez shows, um, everything at the Met Gala. Picture: Getty Images Source: Getty Images
All the looks from the Met Gala
The theme of the night is China: Through the Looking Glass — a stimulus that some celebs have interpreted more literally than others.
Earlier, Sarah Jessica Parker turned heads in a sky-high Philip Treacy headpiece. And Anne Hathaway donned a futuristic gold hoodie.
The $30,000-a-plate gala was a hot ticket for the hottest young stars of music, film and fashion.
Model buds Karlie Kloss and Gigi Hadid left the swanky Carlyle hotel hand-in-hand. And Kim K’s little sister Kendall made an appearance too.
Form fitting ... Kendall Jenner smoulders on the red carpet. Source: Supplied
Model behaviour ... Gigi Hadid and Karlie Kloss leaving The Carlyle Hotel en route to the Met Gala earlier in the night. Picture: Getty Images Source: Getty Images
Friendly ... Lorde and Ellie Goulding. Source: AP
Fifty shades of silver and white ... Dakota Johnson.Source: Getty Images
Newlyweds ... Amal and George Clooney shared a moment on the red carpet. Picture: AP Source: AP
Sleek ... Rita Ora. Source: AP
Body art ... Cara Delevingne. Source: AP
Suited up ... Justin Bieber. Source: AFP
No bra . Sienna Miller. Source: AFP
Rosie Huntington-Whiteley gave only the slightest nod to the Chinese theme, but won plaudits for her ultra-glamorous look anyway.
And Rihanna has inspired comparisons to Big Bird, omelettes and Spongebob Squarepants with her very yellow get-up.
Stunning sisters ... Mary Kate and Ashley Olsen both opted for trademark black. Source: AFP
High hemline ... Miranda Kerr goes mod. Source: Getty Images
You’d dress like this with pins like these. Source: Getty Images
A lot of look ... Rihanna’s dress has inspired comparisons to Spongebob. Source: Getty Images
Quite an entrance ... Does anyone else suddenly crave an omelette? Source: Getty Images
Nailed the brief ... Karolina Kurkova. Source: Getty Images
Boho babe ... Chloe Sevigny. Source: AFP
Date night ... RPatz and FKA Twigs. Source: Getty Images
Back to black ... Carey Mulligan. Source: Getty Images
All yellow ... Kristen Wiig. Source: Getty Images
Tulle outfit ... Alicia Keys. Source: AFP
Fringed benefits ... supermodel Adriana Lima goes to the dark side with her lips and make-up. Picture: Getty ImagesSource: Getty Images
Regal ... Lady Gaga, complete with a crown. Picture: Getty Images Source: Getty Images
Fifty shades ... Miley Cyrus and Zoe Kravitz. Picture: Getty Images Source: Getty Images
Bow tie ... Olivia Wilde and Jason Sudeikis. Source: Getty Images
Family affair ... Lisa Bonet and Lenny Kravitz are there with their daughter, Zoe Kravitz. Source: Getty Images
Kiss, kiss ... Katy Perry and designer Jeremy Scott at the Metropolitan Museum of Art. Picture: Larry Busacca/Getty Images Source: Getty Images
Golden girl ... Kate Hudson. Picture: Getty Images Source:Getty Images
Thigh-high ... Uma Thurman. Picture: Getty ImagesSource: AFP
Superhuman ... X-man in waiting Olivia Munn. Source:Getty Images
Punk appeal ... Madonna. Picture: Getty Images Source:Getty Images
Unconventional look ... Solange on the red carpet. Source:AFP
Sizzling ... Rosie Huntington-Whiteley looks smoulders.Source: Getty Images
Futuristic ... Anne Hathaway is the event’s golden girl. Source: AFP
Close up ... JLaw at arrives at the Metropolitan Museum of Art. Picture: Larry Busacca/Getty Images Source: Getty Images
Anna Wintour has banned fashion’s A-list from taking selfies and posting on Instagram from inside the Met Gala.
“The use of phones for photography and social media will not be permitted inside the gala,” guests were told, according to Page Six.
A source told the New York Post the social media blackout was “solely to do with guests’ security and enjoyment of the event”.
Pink lady ... Kerry Washington. Picture: Getty ImagesSource: AFP
Front on ... the Scandal star. Picture: Getty Images Source:AFP
Dramatic entrance ... SJP. Picture: Evan Agostini/Invision/AP Source: AP
Sarah Jessica Parker. Picture: Evan Agostini/Invision/APSource: AP
Floral ... Poppy Delevingne. Picture: Dimitrios Kambouris/Getty Images Source: Getty Images
Pant suit ... Diane Kruger. Picture: Larry Busacca/Getty Images/AFP Source: AFP
Ready ... Andre Leon Talley. Picture: Andrew Toth/Getty Images Source: Getty Images
Anna Wintour with her daughter, Bee Shaffer. Picture: Larry Busacca/Getty Images Source: Getty Images
From the side ... Jennifer Lawrence. Picture: Getty ImagesSource: Getty Images
Designer Zac Posen and Katie Holmes. Picture: Getty Images Source: Getty Images
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